The old money wedding aesthetic is arguably the most coveted and undeniably the trendiest in 2025. Curious to know if it fits your personal style but unsure of what it really is and how to exude the look? Read on.

What does “old money wedding” mean?

The term “old money wedding” refers to a wedding whose theme follows the old money aesthetic.

Often referred to as the opposite of new money (or those sported by the nouveau riche), which is more extravagant and flamboyant, the old money aesthetic is said to be classy, elegant, understated and sophisticated. 

Why is it called the old money style?

It’s the style associated with the elite or those who have been monied for a long time. 

In the US, you’ll often find references for this style to the lifestyle of old rich families such as the Kennedies, Rockefellers and Vanderbilts. In Australia, think Smorgon, Besen, Myer and Liberman.

For your big day, you’ll find old money aesthetic inspiration from the weddings of Jacqueline Kennedy, Meghan Markle, and Nicky Hilton.

Old money wedding colours

There are no hard rules when it comes to wedding colour palettes following the old money aesthetic but you’ll want to keep it classic and elegant. Opt for combinations that are more on the neutral side. If you were to opt for something other than whites and golds, pick a palette that’s a bit more subdued. Here are some to consider.

Black and white

There’s nothing more timeless and classic than the combination of black and white. This pairing is elegant and iconic — just what you need to exude the old money aesthetic.

Ivory and gold

If you’re looking for something a bit more opulent, the colours ivory and gold are a great bet. They give off the luxurious feel of the gilded era.

Blush

Feeling something more romantic? Blush is a great pick. Pair it with champagne to take the look a notch higher. 

Light green

For a more vintage feel, sage green is the colour to choose. It’s ideal if you’d like to exude the aesthetic in an outdoor setting too.

Dusty or navy blue

Make your wedding colour the “something blue” for your wedding. There are different shades of blue, of course, and dusty and navy blue are understated and elegant picks for the old money wedding aesthetic.

Old money wedding venues and styling

While styling plays a huge part in achieving the look you love for your wedding, the venue also acts as a great backbone that will carry the elements properly. The key is choosing something that’s not too modern. You want that old Hollywood glamour, that summer in Tuscany vibe.

Take inspiration from destination weddings held in castles and vineyards (if you don’t choose to hold yours in one)! A historical mansion, a renovated old bank, and a grand ballroom are great options.

For styling, opt for opulence. Think: oversized flower arrangements, champagne towers, chandeliers, exquisite china and cutlery, and more.

When it comes to your wedding cake, classic and over-the-top hit the spot. A three-tier cake with floral embellishments is a great choice. 

Complete the vibe with a jazz band playing in the background. 

Old money wedding attire

Now, one of the most (if not the actual most) important part of the wedding: the bride’s attire. 

Old money wedding dresses are often those that have clean silhouettes. Some vintage-inspired gowns also make the cut. Think classic ball gown, sweetheart neckline, and basque waist. 

The goal: Understated elegance.

However, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t accessorise. The one thing that sets a bridal look apart from any other dress or gown is the headwear. 

A veil is a great option. Long, clean and classic are some of the things to look out for. 

If you’re a more modern bride who still wants to exude the old money aesthetic, consider sophisticated cosmopolitan styles such as an embellished headpiece. 

For lovers of the vintage aesthetic, opt for headwear that matches your favourite decade’s style, whether that’s the pillbox hat from the ‘60s or a feathered headpiece from the ‘20s.

Discover headwear for your old money wedding here.